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Sayyidah ‘Aaishah’s (radiyallahu’anha) choice of words

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There is a narration where Rasullulah (sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam) would say to ‘Aaishah (radiyallahu ‘anha), that I know when you’re upset with me because you would say by the Rabb of Ibrahim, and not by the Rabb of Muhammad.

Can you please source, and authenticate this Hadith?

One cause for the child being masculine or feminine

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I’ve heard that there is a Hadith that indicates something to the effect that a child will resemble the parent who first achieved climax during coitus. Is this true and from an authentic source?

I’ve since heard others suggest that it relates to gender of baby and not physical resemblance.

The reward for parents who have lost three children

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Is the following narration reliable?

Nabi (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said:

“No Muslim has three of his children pass away before reaching puberty, but Allah will admit him to Jannah by virtue of His mercy for them”

Learn your lineage so that you may join family ties

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Can this Hadith be quoted?

Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said:

“Learn about your family lineage and roots so that you may join family ties, for family ties brings love in the family, increases one’s wealth and brings barakah to/increases one’s life”

How to create harmony in a marriage

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Is this narration authentic:

عَنِ الثَّوْرِيِّ، عَنِ الْأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ أَبِي وَائِلٍ قَالَ: جَاءَ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَجِيلَةَ إِلَى عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، فَقَالَ: إِنِّي قَدْ تَزَوَّجْتُ جَارِيَةً بِكْرًا، وَإِنِّي قَدْ خَشِيتُ أَنْ تَفْرِكَنِي، فَقَالَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ: إِنَّ الْإِلْفَ مِنَ اللَّهِ، وَإِنَّ الْفَرْكَ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ، لِيُكَرِّهَ إِلَيْهِ مَا أَحَلَّ اللَّهُ لَهُ، فَإِذَا أُدْخِلَتْ عَلَيْكَ فَمُرْهَا فَلْتُصَلِّ خَلْفَكَ رَكْعَتَيْنِ، قَالَ الْأَعْمَشُ: فَذَكَرْتُهُ لِإِبْرَاهِيمَ، فَقَالَ: قَالَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ: وَقُلِ: اللَّهُمَّ بَارِكْ لِي فِي أَهْلِي، وَبَارِكْ لَهُمْ فِيَّ، اللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنِي مِنْهُمْ، وَارْزُقْهُمْ مِنِّي، اللَّهُمَّ اجْمَعْ بَيْنَنَا مَا جَمَعْتَ إِلَى خَيْرٍ، وَفَرِّقْ بَيْنَنَا إِذَا فَرَّقْتَ إِلَى خَيْرٍ

‘Do not feed our children Haram’

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Is the following narration reliable?:

:كانت المرأة من الصحابة إذا خرج زوجها في الصباح لطلب الرزق تقول له
يا أبو فلان، اتق الله فينا، ولا تأتنا إلا بالحلال الطيب، فإنا نصبر على الجوع ولا نصبر على حر نار جهنم

The reward for a widowed mother who takes care of her child

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Is this narration authentic?

“I and a widow whose face has darkened, and she is patient with her child will be as close as these two fingers in Jannah”

The importance of being dutiful to the husband

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What is the authenticity

Husayn ibn Mihsan narrated that his aunt went to the Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) for some need. Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) asked her, ‘Do you have a husband?’ She said, ‘Yes’. He asked ‘How are you with him?’ She replied, I am not negligent in obeying and serving him except for matters that I am not able to perform’. He (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) then said, ‘Watch [how well you treat him] for indeed, he is your Jannah or your Jahannam’.

Wishing for children in Jannah

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What is the authenticity of this narration:

“When a Mu’min (believer) wishes for a child in Jannah, its pregnancy, birth and its growing older will happen in less than no time.”

(Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah, Dharimi, Ibn Hanbal)

The father is the best door to Jannah

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Is this Hadith authentic?

Sayyiduna Abud Darda (radiyallahu ‘anhu) reported that Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said,

“The father is the middle of the door of Jannah, so keep this door or lose it.”

I have also been told there are variations of this Hadith where it says “The father is the key to Jannah” and not the door?

Reward for caring properly for one’s daughters

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Please provide the reference for the following Hadith:

‘If a man gets a daughter grows her up properly and gives her an education and gets her married Jannah becomes binding on him’

Barakah in sustenance

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Kindly provide an ‘amal (deed that I may carry out) for increase and Barakah in my rizq (sustenance)

Virtue of a woman whose first child is a daughter

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I wanted to ask the authenticity of the following Hadith:

من بركة المرأة ابتكارها بالأنثى

“Wathilah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that he (sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam) said: “Amongst the blessing of a woman is that the first born be a girl.”

Ibn Asakir.