Upbringing of children

24 Rabi'ul Akhir 144628 October 2024

‘Allamah Alusi (rahimahullah) Recommends Gifting Daughters First

QuestionWhere is this quote mentioned? Al-Alusi (rahimahullah) has said: "It is customary for men of value to reassure women's hearts because of their weakness. This is why it is recommended that when a man gives something to his children, he should start with his daughters."

12 Dhul Qa'dah 144015 July 2019

The Virtue of Bringing up Two Daughters

QuestionIs this Hadith authentic? Rasulullah (sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said: "If anyone brings up two girls [by taking care of them until they reach the age of puberty], he and I will enter Jannah like these two [fingers], pointing with his [index and middle] fingers." (Tirmidhi)

17 Muharram 144028 September 2018

A Narration About a Father Teaching His Child Etiquette

QuestionIs this suitable to quote? Rasulullah (sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said: "It is better for a father to discipline/teach etiquette to his son than to give one entire measure (one sa') of charity."

15 Jumadal Ula 14391 February 2018

Do Not Sin When With Your Children for This Will Cause Them to Lose Respect

QuestionCould you provide the reference for this narration: أخبرنا مقاتل بن محمد بن بنان العكي قال: حضرت مع أبي وأخي عند أبي إسحاق يعني إبراهيم الحربي فقال إبراهيم لأبي: هؤلاء أولادك؟ قال: نعم، قال: احذر لا يرونك حيث نهاك الله، فتسقط من أعينهم

22 Dhul Hijjah 143814 September 2017

Caring for Daughters Without Showing Preferential Treatment

QuestionI have read the Hadith on your website regarding caring properly for daughters. Is there any Hadith which also mentions an added condition of not preferring other children over one's daughters in Hadith?

24 Dhul Qa'dah 14368 September 2015

Reward for Caring Properly for One’s Daughters

QuestionPlease provide the reference for the following Hadith: "If a man gets a daughter grows her up properly and gives her an education and gets her married Jannah becomes binding on him"

29 Rajab 143618 May 2015

Parents Forsaking Their Children

QuestionI just wanted to know that what does the Quran or Hadith say about parents forsaking their own children?

14 Sha'ban 143513 June 2014

Hadith on Upbringing of Children

QuestionWhat is the status of this Hadith? أَدِّبُوا أولادَكم على ثلاثِ خِصالٍ: على حُبِّ نبيِّكم، وحُبِّ أهلِ بيتِهِ، وعلى قراءةِ القرآنِ، فإن حَمَلَةَ القرآنِ في ظِلِّ اللهِ يومَ لا ظِلَّ إلا ظِلُّهُ، مع أنبيائِه وأصْفِيَائِهِ Teach your children three things; 1. Love for your Prophet (sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam) 2.…